Heb je het gevoel dat je vastzit in je leven? Vraag je je af waarom? Lijkt er iets mis te zijn, maar kun je er de vinger niet op leggen? In 'Leugens die je jezelf vertelt' onthult psychotherapeut Jon Frederickson op welke manieren we onszelf voor de gek houden en hoe we daar uit kunnen komen. Aan de hand van tientallen verhalen en voorbeelden laat hij zien hoe de ogenschijnlijke oorzaak van onze problemen bijna nooit de echte oorzaak is. Daarnaast onthult hij waar we echt bang voor zijn en...

Would you like to be a more skilled therapist? Would you like to help the 50 percent of patients who drop out of therapy before they receive its full benefits? Would you like to connect with hard-to-reach patients so you can form a healing therapeutic alliance? While other books teach theory, this book will help you develop the specific skills you need to be an effective therapist. You can practice the exercises with a partner or with audio recordings, just like learning a language. And vi...

Do you feel stuck in your life? Do you wonder why? Does something seem wrong, but you can't put your finger on it? In The Lies We Tell Ourselves, psychotherapist Jon Frederickson reveals the ways we fool ourselves and how to get unstuck.Through dozens of stories and examples, he shows how the apparent cause of our problems is almost never the real cause. In addition, he reveals what we really fear and how to face it. In these pages you'll discover• How to identify the lies yo...

Todos nos creemos nuestras propias mentiras para evitar el dolor; es humano. ¿El problema? Esas mentiras que al principio fueron escudos contra el sufrimiento se convierten en nuestro mayor enemigo. Nos decimos que somos “malos” en lugar de reconocer que una persona nos hizo daño; nos convencemos de que “las cosas mejorarán” en lugar de enfrentar un matrimonio que se desmorona; nos “sacrificamos” en vez de expresar lo que realmente queremos. ¿Qué pasa si lo que está “mal” en nosotros a...

Some patients are crippled by fear and anxiety. To help the 50 percent of patients who drop out of therapy before they have received its full benefits, therapists must know how to make therapy a safe place. Only if patients feel safe in their body and with the therapist can they feel safe enough to change. Co-Creating Safety provides clear, systematic steps for assessing and meeting patients' needs. Every technique is illustrated with a vignette. Representing hundreds of therapeutic impass...

Do you have patients who are "stuck" and resist change? Would you like to help the 50 percent of patients who drop out of therapy before they have received its full benefits?To be successful therapists must know how to intervene to help patients experience previously avoided feelings. Co-Creating Change provides clear systematic steps for assessing patients' needs and intervening. Every technique is illustrated with a clinical vignette. The vignettes—representing hundreds of therapeutic im...

Clinical Thinking in Psychotherapy empowers practitioners and students to better understand clients by attending to both verbal and nonverbal forms of expression. Readers will find tools for unlearning biases and for providing effective therapy with transcripts and dialogic tools.Chapters focus on how to practice clinical thinking, how to teach it, and how to reflect on what is being taught. Therapists, supervisors, and students alike will come away from this book with dec...

Wir sind immer wieder getrieben, wider besseres Wissen zu handeln & ein Spannungszustand, der oft zum Selbstbetrug führt. Jon Frederickson zeigt in seinem Buch auf, was wir uns vormachen und wie wir uns davon befreien können. Auch wenn wir Unwahrheiten benutzen, um Schmerzen zu vermeiden, kann das Festhalten an unseren Fantasien tatsächlich zur Quelle noch größeren Leidens werden. Anhand von zahlreichen Geschichten und Beispielen stellt der Autor dar, dass die scheinbare Ursache unserer Pr...

Gerçeklerle yüzleşmek neden bu kadar zor ve acı verici? Kendimize söylediğimiz yalanlar bizi koruyor mu, yoksa daha derin çıkmazlara mı sürüklüyor? Peki bu yalanlar bizi gerçekte kim olduğumuzdan uzaklaştırıyorsa?Dünya çapında tanınan psikoterapist, eğitmen ve yazar Jon Frederickson Kendimize Söylediğimiz Yalanlar’da insanın kendini kandırma biçimlerini ve gerçeklerden kaçmanın duygusal sağlığımıza etkilerini ele alıyor. Psikoterapi seanslarından çarpıcı örnekler sunarak savunma mek...

Psychodynamic Psychotherapy is the first book designed to teach therapists how to listen and intervene from multiple perspectives. Through study and analysis of session transcripts, the reader learns how to listen and formulate interpretations from four different perspectives: reflection, analysis of conflict, analysis of transference, and analysis of defense. Each listening approach is introduced with a brief chapter illustrating the rules of intervention followed by therapy transcripts, ...

Hold op med at gemme sandheden og lev et mere autentisk liv Sidder du fast I dit liv? Undrer du dig over hvorfor? Føles noget forkert, uden at du kan sætte fingeren på, hvad det er? I Løgnene vi fortæller os selv løfter den amerikanske psykoterapeut Jon Frederickson sløret for, hvordan vi skyder os selv og hvordan vi kommer fri. Med dusinvis af beretninger og eksempler viser han, hvordan den tilsyneladende årsag til vores problemer næsten aldrig er den reelle årsag. Endvidere viser han, hv...

Todos nos creemos nuestras propias mentiras para evitar el dolor; es humano. ¿El problema? Esas mentiras que al principio fueron escudos contra el sufrimiento se convierten en nuestro mayor enemigo. Nos decimos que somos "malos" en lugar de reconocer que una persona nos hizo daño; nos convencemos de que "las cosas mejorarán" en lugar de enfrentar un matrimonio que se desmorona; nos "sacrificamos" en vez de expresar lo que realmente queremos. ¿Qué pasa si lo que está "mal" en nosotros apunt...