Strange as it may seem, other people are not nearly as committed to our happiness as we are. In fact, sometimes they seem like they're on a mission to make us miserable! There's always that one person. The one who hijacks your emotions and makes you crazy. The one who seems to thrive on drama. If you could just "fix" that person, everything would be better. But we can't fix other people--we can only make choices about ourselves. In this cut-to-the-chase book, communication expert Mike Bech...

Communication is an art, and anyone--whether shy or outgoing--can improve his or her conversational skills. How to Communicate with Confidence is a straightforward guide to making good conversation that works in any situation--and works for any personality type. Highlighting the art of give and take and stressing the importance of listening, this book gives confidence to those who hesitate to strike up a conversation. Author Mike Bechtle shows readers that they don't have...

What Is He Really Thinking?When a woman begins a relationship with a man, she may think she's found her knight in shining armor. As the relationship continues, that armor can begin to feel like a barricade she just can't get past it. What's he hiding in there, anyway?Relationship and communication expert Mike Bechtle offers women an insider's guide to the puzzling male brain. Simple and practical, this book provide...

Männer und Frauen sind grundverschieden. Was geht im Kopf eines Mannes wirklich vor? Beziehungsexperte Mike Bechtle zeigt, wie Männer denken, handeln und was sie brauchen, um in Beziehungen zu wachsen. Ein hilfreiches Buch für alle Frauen, die den Mann an ihrer Seite besser verstehen und in gesunden und bereichernden Beziehungen leben möchten.

You don't have to be controlled by difficult people! Strange as it may seem, other people are not nearly as committed to our happiness as we are. In fact, sometimes it seems like they’re on a mission to make us miserable! There’s always that one person. The one who hijacks our emotions. The one who seems to thrive on drama. If we could just “fix” that person, everything would be better. But we can’t fix other people. We can only make choices about ourselves. In this cut-to-the-chase audio ...

The most common methods of evangelism are tailor-made for extroverts. But what about the rest of us? Other Christians, including introverted, reflective people, are left with feelings of guilt and fear and the desire to become more outgoing. The problem, says Mike Bechtle, is not their personality, but that they've been taught methods of evangelism that push them too far out of their comfort zone.In Evangelism for the Rest of Us, Bechtle shows readers how to share their faith in mo...

不再用「我以為」建立關係，錯演內心戲只會讓人失望不斷，了解男人的底層邏輯才是王道。【專文推薦】國際媒人 王亭嵐Tilaine作家 編劇 劉中薇知名主持人 何戎妳還在找開關，偏偏他就莫名開機；妳無法預料的時候，他又突然關機；平時還算正常，多數時候他也符合期望，在妳沒料到的地方，他卻死不合作！你們說著同一種語言，但妳為什麼完全不知道他在想什麼……【範例①】妳和妳的男人坐在車上，妳說去吃晚餐吧，男人說現在不想。妳聽到回答很受傷：難道他不關心我今天多辛苦？為什麼這麼不體貼？【範例②】妳是夜型人，他是晨型人，妳對他說，我們來談談（天啊，男人最怕聽到這台...

We all want other people to like us and think well of us. But when we depend on the praise, admiration, or appreciation of others for our sense of self-worth, we become trapped in an exhausting and debilitating cycle of people-pleasing relationships where we always give and rarely receive. The most common advice we hear—Start putting your own needs first!—doesn't work, because we do love helping other people!Thankfully, the solution to the people pleaser's "problem" isn't ...

Turn your biggest struggle into your greatest strength!You'll learn to- say no instead of automatically saying yes- handle conflict without intimidation- strengthen relationships by being the real you- stop looking to others' opinions of you to define your self-worthWe all want other people to like us and think well of us. But when we depend on the praise, admiration, or appreciation of others for our sense of self-worth, we beco...

What if you could enter any room—a business meeting, a social situation, a conference, an interview—with complete confidence, knowing just what to say and how to act, yet still be 100 percent yourself? Sound impossible? It's not. It's not even complicated.In How to Read a Room, communication expert Dr. Mike Bechtle shares his simple four-step process for accurately assessing any situation so that you can be comfortable, confident, and genuinely you. He helps you discover w...

What if you could enter any room--a business meeting, a social situation, a conference, an interview--with complete confidence, knowing just what to say and how to act, yet still be 100 percent yourself? Sound impossible? It's not. It's not even complicated.In How to Read a Room,communication expert Dr. Mike Bechtle shares his simple four-step process for accurately assessing any situation so that you can be comfortable, confident, and genuinely you. He helps you· ...

All of us could use a communication tune-upEver come away from a conversation wishing you'd said something differently, something else, or just something? We've all had conversations that took an unproductive turn or avoided conversations that really needed to happen. If you want to become a better communicator, Dr. Mike Bechtle has good news: the art of confident conversation is something you can develop through simple, repeatable habits. In this book, he shows yo...