La paura, l'abbandono, l'insuccesso o il dolore sono un'esperienza comune nella vita di chiunque. Eppure, spesso facciamo poco o niente per riparare i danni che queste emozioni procurano. Perché? Semplicemente, perché non abbiamo gli strumenti adatti per gestirle: ci sembra eccessivo ricorrere a uno psicanalista, e insufficiente parlarne a un amico. Così accade che trascuriamo le nostre ferite psicologiche perché pensiamo che non esistano rimedi semplici, rapidi ed efficaci per guarirle. M...

Whether we like it or not, work is central to our lives. Most of us define ourselves by our work; it gives us a purpose, it enables us to maintain our lives, our homes, our nourishment, our recreational pursuits and it puts us often among like-minded people who share and appreciate our skills and achievements. No wonder we feel it is so important!But work can intrude on our lives and unconsciously take over our thoughts, our priorities, and even our coping mechanisms. Especially in...

Todos tenemos que superar ciertas heridas emocionales, de la misma forma que nos sobreponemos a las heridas físicas. Pero, ¿cómo actuar frente a una herida emocional?Primeros auxilios emocionales se adentra en los últimos descubrimientos científicos y psicológicos para ofrecernos tratamientos efectivos, fáciles de aplicar y rápidos para problemas comunes, que van desde la reflexión persistente a la autoestima dañada.El Dr. Winch presenta a través de ejemplos reales...

El psicólogo clínico, conferencista TED y autor de Emotional First Aid , Guy Winch, PhD, ofrece en este libro una guía para enfrentar las múltiples presiones que impone el trabajo moderno, basada en investigaciones recientes y en las historias de los pacientes a quienes ha ayudado a prosperar en el exigente ritmo del mundo laboral actual.Nos gus...

Assim como um joelho ralado ou uma dor muscular, o fracasso, a culpa, a rejeição, a solidão e a perda fazem parte do nosso dia a dia. Mas enquanto somos rápidos em fazer um curativo num corte, não tomamos providências semelhantes quando passamos por reveses emocionais.Acabamos deixando o sofrimento para lá, sem saber que, da mesma maneira que um machucado sem tratamento pode infeccionar, uma mágoa negligenciada pode piorar e se transformar numa questão emocional mais séria, como um...

Whether we like it or not, work is central to our lives. Most of us define ourselves by our work; it gives us a purpose, it enables us to maintain our lives, our homes, our nourishment, our recreational pursuits and it puts us often among like-minded people who share and appreciate our skills and achievements. No wonder we feel it is so important!But work can intrude on our lives and unconsciously take over our thoughts, our priorities, and even our coping mechanisms. Especially in...

Hepimizin kalbi kırılır. Sevdiğimiz birini kaybettikten sonra ya da bir ilişkinin son bulmasının ardından yas tutarız. Çaresizce zamanın iyileştirici gücüne inanırız. Günlerce, haftalarca, aylarca acı çekeriz. Yası sonlandırmanın çarelerini ararken bazen acıya tutunuruz, bazen onu yok saymaya çalışırız. Karmaşık bir ruh haliyle yoğun bir sisin içinde kayboluruz ve çıkış yolumuzu bulamayız.Peki bu evrensel deneyim hakkında ne kadar az şey bildiğimizin farkında mıyız? Hep söylendiği ...

Behandeln Sie kleine emotionale Verletzungen, bevor sie zu großen Wunden werden. Auf ein aufgeschlagenes Knie kleben wir ein Pflaster. Was aber unternehmen wir, um die seelischen Verletzungen zu behandeln, die wir im Alltag erleiden? Oft fehlen uns dafür wirksame Mittel. Gleich zum Therapeuten zu gehen ist nicht immer sinnvoll, denn viele seelische Verletzungen sind nicht so schwer, dass sie professionelle Hilfe erfordern. Vergleichbar einem Medizinschränkchen mit Verbandszeug, Salben und ...

„Az igazi szívfájdalom összetéveszthetetlen – semmi nem tud ilyen heves kínokat okozni, és képes ennyire átvenni az uralmat a testünk és az elménk fölött. Ilyenkor nem tudunk másra gondolni. Semmilyen más érzelemnek nem jut már hely. Semmi más nem érdekel minket.”Mindenki megérti, hogy rendkívül nehéz túljutnunk egy közeli hozzátartozónk halálán vagy a válásunkon. Ám ha amiatt törik össze a szívünk, mert szakított velünk a szerelmünk, vagy elhunyt a kedvenc háziállatunk, már koránt...

Prescriptive and unique, Emotional First Aid is essential reading for anyone looking to become more resilient, build self-esteem, and let go of the hurts and hang-ups that are holding them back.We all sustain emotional wounds. Failure, guilt, rejection, and loss are as much a part of life as the occasional scraped elbow. But while we typically bandage a cut or ice a sprained ankle, our first aid kit for emotional injuries is not just understocked—it’s none...

Imagine if we treated broken hearts with the same respect and concern we have for broken arms? Psychologist Guy Winch urges us to rethink the way we deal with emotional pain, offering warm, wise, and witty self-help advice for the broken-hearted.Real heartbreak is unmistakable. We think of nothing else. We feel nothing else. We care about nothing else. Yet while we wouldn’t expect someone to return to daily activities immediately after suffering a broken limb, hear...

被拒絕的心碎，努力後的挫折，失落愛的遺憾如何不讓傷痛惡化擴大，變成一生無法挽救的傷疤？日積月累的情緒輕傷，都要在第一時間自救！TED超人氣演說〈為什麼我們都要練習情緒急救〉觀看人數逾1100萬次，被譯成38種語言並獲評TED.com網站史上最啟發人心演說Top5「這種事老是發生在我身上」「老是被拒絕」「為什麼總覺自己像個隱形人？」「已經夠努力了還是不斷失敗？」「失去與創傷粉碎了整個生活」「緊抓不放的罪惡感，無法放過自己」「不是越想越悲情，就是越想越火大」「工作壓力大到極點」每個人或多或少都中過以上幾點，人的一生經常會受到心理傷害。不幸的是，很少人意識到治療這些傷害的重要性，也很少人知道如何有效為自己療傷。久而久之，這些傷口就對我們的心理健康造成危害。