For thirty years, people have whispered their deepest questions about sex, desire, and marriage in JC Hennington counseling office. "The Garden We Were Afraid to Tend" finally gives them voice.With pastoral honesty and clinical wisdom, this book tackles the topics the Church has been silent about for too long: mismatched libidos, menopause and erectile dysfunction, oral sex and sex toys, emotional affairs and infidelity, and what to do with desire when you're single and saved....