A practical and insightful consideration of what it means to be sexual as a trans, queer person from activist Mx. Nillin Lore.What even is “sexy,” and how do you do it? A tough question for trans and nonbinary queers struggling to find their sexual selves in a landscape rife with misogynistic, transphobic and homophobic ideals and expectations.In How Do I Sexy? Mx. Nillin Lore provides affirming and helpful direction based on over a decade of their...

An exploration of the messy but liberating process of defining and decentring inner narratives of shame, fear and regret for one’s own queer identity.Queerphobic and transphobic messaging can arrive from nearly any direction, and once queer and trans people are exposed to the fear, disgust and judgement people have for otherness, it can easily fester into internalized oppression.In a society that promotes the narrative of self-loathing queers, loving and ac...

A practical and insightful consideration of what it means to be sexual as a trans, queer person from activist Mx. Nillin Lore.What even is “sexy,” and how do you do it? A tough question for trans and nonbinary queers struggling to find their sexual selves in a landscape rife with misogynistic, transphobic and homophobic ideals and expectations.In How Do I Sexy? Mx. Nillin Lore provides affirming and helpful direction based on over a decade of their...

An exploration of the messy but liberating process of defining and decentring inner narratives of shame, fear and regret for one’s own queer identity.Queerphobic and transphobic messaging can arrive from nearly any direction, and once queer and trans people are exposed to the fear, disgust and judgement people have for otherness, it can easily fester into internalized oppression.In a society that promotes the narrative of self-loathing queers, loving and ac...

A practical guide to help make nonmonogamous events and communities more inclusive of all genders and sexualities.Heteronormativity and misconceptions around sexuality and gender expression persist even in nonmonogamous communities. Queer and gender-diverse people can find it intimidating to navigate dating and socializing in these scenes.In Nonmonogamy and Queer Inclusivity, Mx. Nillin Lore, author of the award-winning How Do I Sexy? A Guide f...

A practical guide to help make nonmonogamous events and communities more inclusive of all genders and sexualities.Heteronormativity and misconceptions around sexuality and gender expression persist even in nonmonogamous communities. Queer and gender-diverse people can find it intimidating to navigate dating and socializing in these scenes.In Nonmonogamy and Queer Inclusivity, Mx. Nillin Lore, author of the award-winning How Do I Sexy? A Guide f...

If you've been searching for smutty, fearless gender diverse erotica written by affirming, own-voices folks who get it, then this is the book you’ve been looking for! Packed with explicit stories from trans, nonbinary, and gender diverse writers, Heckin’ Lewd celebrates sexual nonconformity, queerness, non-traditional relationship structures, and unrestrained lust, pleasure, and kink.