#1 Reader's Comment: "I couldn't put it down.""We can't expect to spend our life in fantasy and ever know what it feels like to be real."In UNperfect, we unashamedly share, with wit and suspense, hard and messy parts of our story from individual perspectives-how we hustled for the fantasy marriage and perfect Christian life. Yet we learned, it's only through a willingness torisk discomfort,wade into the deep,brave...

How to Get Over Wanting a Perfect MarriageMarriage is messy. Ours has been very messy, but we found the deepest love developed in our biggest struggles. Through our discoveries, we grew up and learned to practice connection. Money, status, and things did not bring us happiness. Buying the nice house, getting good jobs, having more money, and finding the best schools for our kids did not improve our marriage. We turned the pursuit of stuff into a quest for certainty...