I married John Pater in Oct 1971, in communist Romania. We separated after six months and it seemed like any hope for reconciliation was gone. I prayed many years for him hoping that he would come back. He became involved in another relationship so I decided to divorce him after seven years. Although I had many people asking me to marry them, I felt that neither one of them was what God had intended for me. I received a letter from my ex-husband after twelve years. He had escaped from Romania...