BONUS: This edition contains an excerpt from Dr. Susan Forward's Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them.When you were a child...Did your parents tell you were bad or worthless?Did your parents use physical pain to discipline you?Did you have to take care of your parents because of their problems?Were you frightened of your parents?Did your parents do anything to you that had to be kept secret?Now that you are an adult...

Hombres que odian a las mujeres y mujeres que siguen amándolosAunque toda relación entre un hombre y una mujer suele iniciarse con una oleada de pasión y entrega mutuas, en ocasiones, de una manera gradual, va apareciendo el lado oscuro, agresivo e inquietante de él: se trata del misógino, un hombre que, aun amando a su compañera, se comporta con ella como si la odiara; a veces el agravio es muy sutil, pero otras la critica abiertamente, la humilla, la responsabiliza de todo lo que...

Esta obra parte del principio de que todos manipulamos hasta cierto nivel, pero el chantaje emocional es un nivel aún mayor. Quien chantajea se aprovecha de los miedos de la otra persona para hacerla sentir culpable u obligada a cumplir con sus exigencias.El chantaje emocional es una poderosa forma de manipulación por medio de la cual las personas a nuestro alrededor amenazan con castigarnos si no hacemos lo que quieren que hagamos. Los chantajistas emocionales sab...

Millionen von Menschen erleben ihre Kindheit als Alptraum. Aber weil sie wehrlose, abhängige Opfer waren, können sie die Schuldigen nicht benennen, richten negative Gefühle ohnmächtig gegen sich selbst. Im Erwachsenenalter wirkt die vergiftete Kindheit immer noch nach - mangelndes Selbstwertgefühl und latente Aggressionen sind die Folgen.Susan Forward will helfen, diesen Teufelskreis zu durchbrechen. Anhand zahlreicher Beispiele aus ihrer Praxis erklärt sie im vorliegenden Buch zun...

Hombres que odian a las mujeres y mujeres que siguen amándolosAunque toda relación entre un hombre y una mujer suele iniciarse con una oleada de pasión y entrega mutuas, en ocasiones, de una manera gradual, va apareciendo el lado oscuro, agresivo e inquietante de él: se trata del misógino, un hombre que, aun amando a su compañera, se comporta con ella como si la odiara; a veces el agravio es muy sutil, pero otras la critica abiertamente, la humilla, la responsabiliza de todo lo que...

An invaluable guide for anyone consumed by romantic obsession— as well as the objects of their unwanted desire!Millions of otherwise rational and mature men and women are driven to self-defeating, out-of-control behavior by intense, unfulfilled desire. Millions of others— targets of their obsession— find their lives turned upside down by unwanted attention, harassment, and worse.In Obsessive Love, acclaimed therapist Dr. Susan Forward offers crucia...

With Mothers Who Can't Love: A Healing Guide for Daughters, Susan Forward, Ph.D., author of the smash #1 bestseller Toxic Parents, offers a powerful look at the devastating impact unloving mothers have on their daughters—and provides clear, effective techniques for overcoming that painful legacy.In more than 35 years as a therapist, Forward has worked with large numbers of women struggling to escape the emotional damage inflicted by the women who ...

En esta notable guía de autoayuda, la doctora Susan Forward te lleva de la mano, a través de casos reales de hijos de padres que odian, para ayudarte a liberarte de los patrones frustrantes de tu relación con tus padres -y te ayuda, asimismo, a descubrir un excitante mundo nuevo de seguridad personal, fuerza interior e independencia emocional-.Supere su doloroso legado y recupere su vida.No todos los niños encuentran la necesaria comprensión en el seno fami...

Is this the way love is supposed to feel?• Does the man you love assume the right to control how you live and behave?• Have you given up important activities or people to keep him happy?• Is he extremely jealous and possessive?• Does he switch from charm to anger without warning?• Does he belittle your opinions, your feelings, or your accomplishments?• Does he withdraw love, money, approval, or sex to punish you?• Does he b...

壓抑、焦慮、害怕、嫉妒、絕望、孤獨……你像個溺水的人，用盡最後力氣呼喊：「為什麼不愛我……」──執迷愛戀──囚禁了「執迷者」，與他們眼中「唯一的完美情人」。滿溢的愛被拒絕，讓你崩潰，寧可緊抓著痛苦，這是你僅剩與世界的唯一連結……這種感受不是愛，而是「執迷」──給深受「執迷愛戀」煎熬，令人心疼不捨的你。▍多少次，你這麼以為？「我找到了唯一的完美情人！」「他是怕傷害我才騙我的，因為他愛我。」「她真的很愛我，只是她自己還沒發現。」▍多少次，你自我鞭撻？「我怎麼會施暴？！」「我竟然讓這種事發生在自己身上！」「都是我的錯，我就是離不開他……」▍因極度缺乏愛，而極度渴望愛。執迷愛戀看似激情又浪漫，卻是當局者迷，因為害怕被拋棄而狂熱需索，認定對方是「唯一的完美情人」，深陷焦慮、壓迫的糾纏，甚至激化成恐怖情人。執迷愛戀，囚禁了執迷者與他們...

From Susan Forward, Ph.D., the New York Times bestselling author of Toxic Parents and Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them, comes a practical and powerful book that will help couples cope with terrible and toxic in-laws.Toxic in-laws are in-laws who create genuine chaos through various assaults—aggressive or subtle—on you and your marriage. Toxic in-laws come in a wide variety of guises: "The Critics," who tell you what you're d...

Is this the way love is supposed to feel?● Does the man you love assume the right to control how you live and behave?● Have you given up important activities or people to keep him happy?● Does he belittle your opinions, your feelings, or your accomplishments?● Does he withdraw love, money, approval, or sex to punish you?● Does he blame you for everything that goes wrong in the relationship?● Do you find yourself “walking on eggs” and apologiz...