A Dom/sub relationship doesn’t just happen. It is a finely crafted and designed system of expectations and joys. In order for you and your submissive lady to “fit” one another and create a lasting, happy union there must be a period of training.It does not matter if your sub has thirty years of experience in submission or just read 50 Shades of Grey and decided to try it herself. She will need to be trained for the best relationship to emerge.&quot...

Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn’t just a “good idea” when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential."Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive" is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you t...

BDSM is a whole different world where people speak in their own formal and informal language, have rules and social norms, and create expectations based on everything from names to symbols you employ.As a sex educator and an active member in the BDSM community, I found most information floating around to be inaccurate and some even unhealthy. As a primer this guide will demystify the world of BDSM and present it in a straightforward and eas...

Are you one of those people who want to spice up their love life with the addition of dirty talk, longing to hear certain words or phrases whispered, moaned, growled, or simply uttered but just plain don’t know how to get started?The first thing to understand is that dirty talk isn’t dirty. There’s nothing shameful or wrong about it.Men and women are hard-wired differently. Men like to hear, while women like to visualize, and that’s complet...

Fellatio, the art (trust me, it’s an art) of oral sex, is like playing an instrument. Mouth, hands, motion and emotion all mix together at the same time – and the beautiful music of your lover’s satisfaction is heard.Anyone can pick up an instrument and make noise, but to really play it takes knowledge, skill, and practice, practice, practice."Blow By Blow" will guide you, step by step, to the mind-blowing blow jobs that your man will be willing t...

There are two foundational pillars of a BDSM relationship between a Dom and a sub: consent and trust. Everything else in the relationship – the fun, the love, the discipline, the eroticism, the tears and the journey – are all built on those standards. Both consent and trust require honest communication in order to thrive. The vast majority of that communication begins long before the training begins.In "Dom's Guide to ...

The world is full of advice on how to charge, or re-charge, our sexual relationships, but nothing adds more of a jolt to a couple than when they say those three lovely words:“Let’s have anal.”Anal sex is a sensual and high-powered addition to your sexual repertoire. This form of sexuality is one of the most intimate personal connections a couple can have. Considered taboo by some modern societies, it is often elusive, and misunderstood....

Are you having trouble coming up with scenes to try in your BDSM relationship? Do you feel silly reenacting movies or porn or just draw a blank when asked for suggestions? You have come to the right place!In "The BDSM Playbook," we’re going to review 51 scenes that you can try and adapt to your own lifestyle and routine. They are separated into categories of Beginners (sexual and nonsexual), Earning Trust, and

You’ve been thinking about her all day. Over and over in your mind you’ve been imagining the two of you making love tonight. You don’t just want the evening to be a good experience. It needs to be a great experience for both of you. Searching your thoughts for the best wine to select or the right words to say, it dawns on you that the way to make the night memorable for you both is to ensure it ends with her having an explosive orgasm that rocks her world ...

In this advanced guide for Doms, we’re going to focus on becoming a “billionaire” type of Alpha Dom so that you can become more attractive to the subs you offer your services to. You are soon going to find out that money actually has nothing to do with the attraction the Dom builds with the sub. It’s all in personality, in posturing and in a certain way of thinking.We’re going to train you, Dom to Dom, how to activ...

Submission can be described by a lot of words but “easy” isn’t one of them. Discovering and honoring your desire to submit takes courage, strength and passion. Learning to follow the lead and rhythm set by another, and stretching your limits to accommodate training and service can challenge and exhaust you.The discipline to hold your tongue, retrieve your paddle, or wait around endlessly while knot after knot is being tied as part of a bondage ritual drains your en...

You may think that every Master has a huge house filled with either gothic décor or fluffy white couches, and a ridiculously full selection of paddles, straps, whips, crops, restraints, sex toys, and bondage gear.Fortunately, you don’t have to pay a hundred dollars for a specialty flogger or purchase a wedge from Extreme Restraints for three hundred bucks in order to be a great Dom and provide your sub with hours of bondage, spanking and fun.Most of the thi...