A Dom/sub relationship doesn’t just happen. It is a finely crafted and designed system of expectations and joys. In order for you and your submissive lady to “fit” one another and create a lasting, happy union there must be a period of training.It does not matter if your sub has thirty years of experience in submission or just read 50 Shades of Grey and decided to try it herself. She will need to be trained for the best relationship to emerge.&quot...

Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn’t just a “good idea” when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential."Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive" is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you t...

BDSM is a whole different world where people speak in their own formal and informal language, have rules and social norms, and create expectations based on everything from names to symbols you employ.As a sex educator and an active member in the BDSM community, I found most information floating around to be inaccurate and some even unhealthy. As a primer this guide will demystify the world of BDSM and present it in a straightforward and eas...

Fellatio, the art (trust me, it’s an art) of oral sex, is like playing an instrument. Mouth, hands, motion and emotion all mix together at the same time – and the beautiful music of your lover’s satisfaction is heard.Anyone can pick up an instrument and make noise, but to really play it takes knowledge, skill, and practice, practice, practice."Blow By Blow" will guide you, step by step, to the mind-blowing blow jobs that your man will be willing t...

There are two foundational pillars of a BDSM relationship between a Dom and a sub: consent and trust. Everything else in the relationship – the fun, the love, the discipline, the eroticism, the tears and the journey – are all built on those standards. Both consent and trust require honest communication in order to thrive. The vast majority of that communication begins long before the training begins.In "Dom's Guide to ...

Whether you have always dreamed about life in a collar or just discovered a desire to be sexually adventurous, there is a place for you in the fetish world of submission. The culture of kink, once thought to be limited to couples who wore leather pants and played slap-and-tickle in the bedroom, has grown into a varied and well defined umbrella for sexual identity.Because fetish culture, like all cultures, grows and changes with the people who practice it, there are...

Has your sex life become dull and repetitive?Whether you are a new couple, or have been married for 50 years, it can be difficult to maintain the level of fun and arousal in the bedroom that you would like. Too often, we approach sex as a serious matter, forgetting that it can be a wonderfully creative experience. We let the routine of our daily lives intrude upon the intimate time that we spend with our partner.If we aren’t careful...

Are you having trouble coming up with scenes to try in your BDSM relationship? Do you feel silly reenacting movies or porn or just draw a blank when asked for suggestions? You have come to the right place!In "The BDSM Playbook," we’re going to review 51 scenes that you can try and adapt to your own lifestyle and routine. They are separated into categories of Beginners (sexual and nonsexual), Earning Trust, and

The world is full of advice on how to charge, or re-charge, our sexual relationships, but nothing adds more of a jolt to a couple than when they say those three lovely words:“Let’s have anal.”Anal sex is a sensual and high-powered addition to your sexual repertoire. This form of sexuality is one of the most intimate personal connections a couple can have. Considered taboo by some modern societies, it is often elusive, and misunderstood....

You may think that every Master has a huge house filled with either gothic décor or fluffy white couches, and a ridiculously full selection of paddles, straps, whips, crops, restraints, sex toys, and bondage gear.Fortunately, you don’t have to pay a hundred dollars for a specialty flogger or purchase a wedge from Extreme Restraints for three hundred bucks in order to be a great Dom and provide your sub with hours of bondage, spanking and fun.Most of the thi...

It's a common myth that women don't enjoy oral sex as much as men do. The truth is, most women love their partners "going down" on them. In fact, some women prefer oral sex to traditional sex with penetration. If you have no idea of how to perform cunnilingus correctly, you will be missing out a big part of fun & excitement you and she can have together."The Art of Going Down" was written to inspire the reader to explore the possib...

Submission can be described by a lot of words but “easy” isn’t one of them. Discovering and honoring your desire to submit takes courage, strength and passion. Learning to follow the lead and rhythm set by another, and stretching your limits to accommodate training and service can challenge and exhaust you.The discipline to hold your tongue, retrieve your paddle, or wait around endlessly while knot after knot is being tied as part of a bondage ritual drains your en...