“A detailed, eye-opening account of the real sexual underground in America . . . a thorough and serious study.”—PlayboyFrom *Different Loving:In order to understand unusual sexualities such as dominance and submission, one first has to consider the question ‘What is normal?‘ If the unique function of sex is reproductive—and the only reason men and women should engage in sex is for the purpose of creating a new life...

100,000 COPIES IN PRINT! The long-taboo subject of consensual BDSM (bondage/discipline,dominance/submission, sadomasochism) is coming "out of the closet" - much to the delight of the millions of adults who enjoy engaging in bondage, spanking, erotic role-playing and similar consensual practices. With chapters on everything from partner-seeking to afterplay, including step-by-step guides to bondage, spanking, flagellation, roleplay, erotic torment and much more, Jay Wiseman's SM 101 has tau...

Seven Steps to Successful Service50 Shades of Grey and other spin off books have seen an increase in interest about the BDSM lifestyle. Do people really sign contracts giving themselves away? Do they honestly enjoy being smacked, restrained, used?Some people do, within very specific contexts. How to be the Perfect Submissive answers these questions and more.Guiding you through the quagmire of control, and advising on ways for submissives to enjoy the lifestyle while...

Look beyond the fantasies of whip-cracking dominatrixes and cowering slaveboys, and you'll find real women and men in caring, consensual female-dominant relationships. Yet, given that social norms grant the majority of power to men, how do these relationships work? TammyJo and Fox have been building their female-dominant relationship for many years, and have gathered their most important discoveries and theories into this important manual. You'll learn: - how to take your roles beyond the ...

In 1996, Christina Abernathy condensed her considerable wisdom and experience on the topic of consensual erotic owner/slave relationships into a slim, elegant little manual: Miss Abernathy's Concise Slave Training Manual. In 1998, in response to consumer demand, she laid out a detailed program for training the erotic slave in various aspects of service, obedience and proper values, and published it as Training With Miss Abernathy. With more than 30,000 copies in print, these two books have...

Submissive women have needs just like anybody else. But how can a woman get her needs met when she's relinquished her power to her dominant partner? With warmth, wisdom and a down-to-earth approach, experienced submissive Kacie Cunningham analyzes the realities of the dominant-submissive lifestyle and suggests ways in which both partners can experience the greatest possible growth and pleasure. At the heart of the book is an emotion Kacie has dubbed "Conquer Me" -- which she defines as "the s...

Three decades ago, this book and its companion volume "The New Topping Book" began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming - not just "how-to," but "why-to"... the insider details of emotional support and ethical interaction during kinky play. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely u...

The Ultimate Guide to Kink is the first major guide to BDSM in a generation—a bold and sexy collection of essays that run the gamut from expert how-to tutorials to provocative essays that delve into complex questions about desire, power, and pleasure. The book brings together diverse voices from the kink community in an unprecedented way: each chapter is written by a different sexuality/BDSM educator. Divided into two sections, the first section features thorough, thoughtful piece...

Practical FLR: A Woman's Guide to Gentle Dominance is a book designed to bring clarity to those starting a female-led relationship. The book explores many different domination techniques that will enhance both partners lives for the better.It is not uncommon for a woman to discover her man's submissive side and have no clue how to respond to him. Dominance is often something that must be discovered as it is practiced, and this book will help her do just that!Explore differe...

Practical FLR: Destroying The Taboo is a book that is designed to help shine a new light on female led relationships. It examines all the taboos that hold people back from discovering a type of relationship that just might be exactly what they crave.It makes for a great conversation starter, and serves to help bring honesty and open communication to the forefront. It's a book designed to help both dominants and submissives understand who they are.As taboos and inhibitions m...

Practical FLR is the perfect book to give to your partner if you wish to express your hidden sexual desires. A FLR can turn the sparks in your relationship into flames that burn with intimacy and passion. A series of lessons that highlight why a FLR can transform your relationship in a practical way for both men and women!Explore the different kinds of loving female-led relationships while becoming closer and more connected to your partner. Practical FLR offers 35 lessons that intr...

In The Dominance Playbook, kink educator and lifelong power exchange fanatic Anton Fulmen builds on the fundamentals he established in The Heart of Dominance to explore beyond the basics of dominance and submission in both scenes and relationships. The Playbook includes inspiration and practical advice for a wide range of power exchange practices: administering effective punishments, providing useful service, navigating the delicate territory of sexual objectification, and other fulfilling...