You put a lot of pressure on yourself to be a great parent and raise kids that don’t suck. The problem isn’t a lack of desire, but rather an inherently flawed parenting model.Sometimes you feel it in the ways you are triggered and respond to your kids. Maybe you’re seeing your own shortcomings beginning to emerge in them. It can be disheartening.Rest assured that it’s not entirely avoidable. Having been raised by dysfunctional parents, as they say, “you don’t know what you ...