"Look, you’re here because you want to know what this life is actually like, right? You probably think you’re here for a distraction. That’s what the site is designed to make you think because that’s how the bills get paid. But that isn't the story in these pages. When John first messaged me, I was ready for the usual script—the demands, the 'I paid for you' attitude. But he didn't bring a script. He wanted to be heard and he actually listened. He didn't want to just look at me or my conte...